i always believe that when you help, you shouldn't expect anything in return...
and i also believe that help should only be given to:
- those who cannot fend for themselves (perhaps due to sickness or old age, etc.)
and of course to
- those who are willing to help themselves!
because if otherwise, we are only making them dependent and not self sufficient
as the saying goes:
"Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime."
i choose to be happy!